My name is Bridget, The Dating Doula. I’m a dating app ghostwriter and (reluctant) online dating coach.
If you’re following me on Instagram, you’ll know that my theme for 2020 is, #ShameFreeDating. This includes calling out terrible dating advice, that (subtly) encourages you, to accept the bare minimum.
I’m not that type of dating coach. I want you to expect more. More than you’ve had before and more than you’ve come to expect.
Texting is a basic form of communication. You shouldn’t have to Jedi mind trick someone into communicating with you. Here’s what I would suggest if you were my client and I was your Dating Doula:
Process the rejection and hurt you might be feeling.
This is so important because rejection can feel so personal, even when you know it shouldn’t be. Rather than dismissing them as frivolous or dumb, feel your feelings.Connecting with your emotions, will clear out space in your life, mind and heart. By doing that, you let go of the person or people who’ve hurt and rejected you, and make room for people who won’t make you beg for their attention and interest.
xoxo,
Bridget
The Dating Doula
